Jo finally back to school after 4 months resting in China (the last day was on 19/2). He cried and yelled by the time i left the school. Poor boy indeed for the first day, as his class teacher accidentally hurt his lip by pulling out the water bottle. The strap cut his lip and the blood just wet the tissue and dirty my hand. He seemed very OK and happy yesterday and today, i hope he can keep this study spirit on and doesn't waste my money. I paid RM620 for this semester (included the June fee), but i really not sure can he study till November or not since i am thinking to go back to China after my confinement. But, hubby not supported my views as he said the life in China actually isn't good for a little baby. So how? I also don't know how and don't have the concrete planning.
I will consider to install an internet at home if i am really staying in Sabah till baby is more older, if not, very wasting the money to install it for 1 or 2 months only since Streamyx can't be cut off within 1 year.
22 comments:
huisia
in my opinion, you go back to China so that at least one family can be together. Let Jo goes to school there .. not so good if the family is separated too long.
i went through that .. so I understand how it feels :)
anyway .. you think and make your own decision lor :)
hugs hugs ...
I always have this dilemma of whether to install Streamyx just to use for two months a year. So far I have resisted the silly folly, but I don't know for how much longer! The heart rules the head so much!
Things will have a way of working itself out eventually. . hopefully, eh? Just have to think straight and wide.
hehe...huisia, u dare to leave yur hubby alone in China for so long ka?
Tough being left at school huh? Hope he adjusts soon.
Longi time to be home alone. China is that bad? My wife is talking about getting a job in Shang Hai once the kids graduate. I try and nudge her toward Kay El or Singapore. *wink*
Great blog!! I will be back for more!!
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Hmm... that's one dilemma you've got there. I'm sorry I have no suggestions to offer, but I can wish you the best of luck in whatever decision you decide to take on.
do you intend to get some form of domestic helper if you going back to China, if you are not and your hubby is the the helpful sort, it will be very jialet for you to be alone with a baby and a 3 year.
If staying in Sabah means you can get all the help you need because at the begining stage, you will be needing lots of help and support from your family then it's worth considering.
I have been thro the stage of taking care of the rays when they were very young without helper and it's hard, very hard!
But no matter what you choose or decide to do, we will be here supporting you virtually! :)
wah....Jo back to school ya. I also think that after your confinement you go back to China. Who said China not suitable for baby? Believe God. You can do it. Not good if the family separateed too long.
Personally, I also feel family should be together.
Don't worry about it too much now, though
having a 2nd baby lot of thing have to consider...
i belived that the most important thing is the whole family is together,
its good for yr child too.
joelle's mmy
Wah.. I would have *smacked* the teacher for being sooo careless!!! Why the heck did she yank the bottle out of his mouth for??
And think you should go back to China. China is not exactly round the corner from KK. Am sure you can get your part-timer to do some extra tasks like washing bottles and such.
And as for Joshua, you can enrol him in play school in China, giving you some "free" time with the new baby.
Not to scare you..but think there may be lots of vixens out there??!!!
i think you really need to think twice. No matter how, it is not a good suggestion for husband & wife to live apart.
hi huisia, first time droppin in.. nice blog.. hw re u
hi hui sia, long time never drop by your blog. Wow! You are going to pop soon... take good care of yourself ya?
Well, if you can get a helper back in China, I think you should be alright to go back with 2 kids. Otherwise, it's tough for you to look after 2 kids alone right after confinement. Maybe any of your family member can help you or follow you there? Well, this is just the ideal case.
Hope you can rest more at this moment and prepare for the delivery don't think too much. When it's time, you'll know what to do.
wuah. the hair so straight wan?
Family should always to be united. Unless ur hubby is planning coming back, if not go back to China.
Whatever up & down in future, ur hubby, jo & bb at least be with you. If there is a will, there is a way! Good luck! :-)
Jo and my little Sarah is in the same boat eh? They cry when we left them in someone else's hands. hopefully he's much better now.
Hai, glad to find yr blog !
Jamy here, Malaysian in the US :)
From Sarawak originally.
i agree with most of the comments here...one family should be together lor, just my opinion la.
aiyoo poor joshua, why so careless one the teacher!!
Tough decisions you have to make... Hope you will be able to sort it out soon...
Meantime,relax and enjoy before baby comes out.
if u stay in Sabah... yahooo....
but staying separately not good also. Hmmm.. for Joshua case... well, i have no comment coz MyJosh is only 3. no experience yet abotua ll this school thing. I thought I want to learn from u all on how to treat the children on going to school. :)
back to the topic ... if the money no problem, just let Joshua study for awhile. if have to go back to china, then what to do. Listening to your husband is a good sign that u love him.. and indirectly, you make my father's day awesome ;) LOL.
Huh? You're thinking of going back to China till later?
Pak-mui very scarry one woh..
I also agree to Misha's mum, stay together as a family la.
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