I have a son

While we were watching TV, suddenly hubby said "i have a son". Then he continued "i have a son who has mental, who tells lies, who loves to retort and who loves to cry"....

He shows his mental distinctly after he started to talk, it doesn't mean he didn't own mental before, but we can clearly see his growing memory through his mouth now, he knows how to tell us his self-making story when he did something wrong, he knows how to give us retortion when we scolding him and we're no longer made the white lie successfully as he could remember what we have said before.

My little boy has grown up so much, and he becomes more lovely and adorable than hubby! He would say "Mommy, becareful, don't cut your finger" when he sees me holding the knife. He would pat my back when he sees me vomiting and that day he even held my hand when i came down from the bed after the fetus scanning. He kept saying "Mommy, mommy..becareful". By the time, my hubby just like a trunk standing there and without any thoughtful action, fortunately i have a son!

25 November

We celebrated hubby's birthday on last Saturday in HK, he received a precious gift by seeing the growing fetus in my tummy through the scan. That's my first prenatal check for second baby. Other than a fetus, the doctor even found a cyst that even bigger than the fetus (2.01cm). However, he told me the cyst will be going away automatically after a while, but i just wondering why the cyst is over there. This round we paid HKD1160 (including consultation, medications and lab charges), that's an expensive price that i never paid in M'sia.

After consulted doctor, we just went to Toys 'R' Us to buy Christmas present for JO. Due to his eagerness, the present was being unwrapped by him just right after we exit the checkout. But very unlucky that i only found the thing i bought is a bit out of functions when we're at home, so have to take back to them and ask for exchanging. I can't accept when i press A it reads B, you get what i meant? It's very good electronic learning kit to kids, but it doesn't mean to me if its software has problem. (check the website www.vtechuk.com)

Hubby was very generous to buy toy for Jo, maybe that day was his birthday or maybe he made jo fell off the escalator due to his careless, it wasn't serious happened, but we found scars at Jo's head. It's an instanteneous falling while hubby was holding the stroller when we going up by standing on the escalator. Jo's stroller just fell backward and he knocked his head to the escalator. Before the fallen, we just cleaned up him as he threw up everything when we were having our lunch. We even met a very horrible HK guy like a murderer when Jo put his left leg on his chair, he kept on saying "thank you" (in Cantonese) and his eyes just staring at Jo's leg. Maybe he thought we're from Mainland and non-educated as we speak Mandarin. I was very angry and used English to scold him back, he just kept quiet there perhaps he doesn't know how to retort me with English. So we have 2 unhappiness happens on hubby's birthday.

We didn't have a special dinner at night too due to my low appetite, but i bought a birthday cake and present (chinese tea and the cup) for him the day before his birthday. The cake was chosen by Jo, it had stawberries as decoration on the cheese cake (refer the picture above). It was like Jo's birthday as he took most of the strawberries and vomited everything out after half an hour later. He has stubborn cough, that's why he tends to vomit oftenly.

Every year i would buy a birthday cake for hubby, but i have never been received my cake for ages and nor present too. No birthday, valentine, anniversary and even Christmas present. OK, dear, if you see this, please don't forget to buy me "something" for the coming season. You know what i am eyeing now, i know you're affordable, just see whether you're generous enough or not. I'm waiting to have my Citizen or Canon. Oh, you know i love Joey, somemore the watch is marked with Joey's signature.

Last, i would like to say thanks to "someone" (you know who you're) that surfed the coughing remedy for me, i'm free from cough now after taking the chinese medicine. Thanks GOD and thanks to YOU!

First but not last

I didn't suffer any morning sickness during my first pregnancy. But this time...i don't have morning sickness, but i have afternoon, evening and night sickness.

I feel ok every morning, but i tend to feel nauseous once the afternoon reaches, and it lasts till night. I didn't experience vomit at first pregnancy and i felt comfortable throughout my previous, i even could cook 3 meals for myself everyday.

However, i have experienced my first throwing about 9pm yesterday, i just threw out everything i had eaten before and suffered dizziness after the throwing. My hubby said determinedly "Don't worry, this is your first and also your last", ya, i also told myself this is the first and also the last. But, i vomitted again just now about 7pm, what came out just a water as the whole day i only took 2 slices of bread.

I can't eat, i can't cook and i can't drink water. I feel guilty to my son as he has been taking the delivery services for few days already, it's tough for me too when comes to feeding Jo because i would feel nauseous when i seeing his meal.

Sigh, it seems like my "pregnancy" sickness is real coming.

Drawing

I don't have any drawing talent, absolutely don't have. I remember i used to ask my friend to draw for me when came to an Art session. My secondary school just has Science and Commerce & Art stream, if you choose Commerce then you have take the Art as compulsory too. I did try my best to draw but no matter how hard i tried, i only managed to get "E", i never got a better result than "E".

So, i'm not shirking my responsibility to my hubby, just because he can draw more nicer than me, hence, he has to give up his TV time and teaches Jo.

My hubby drew whatever Jo had requested.

Following sure you know is my notorious "masterpiece".

I made these 2 paper hats for Jo, i feel OK lol, but hubby said these 2 just look the same for him. What do you think? Same looking? Anyway, Jo just loves these so much. Maybe he still doesn't own any artistic feel to examine which one is better and nicer.

Do you still remember my Halloween hat? I won the certificate. Then..who said i don't have the talent? Hubby said just because the school wanted to give me FACE as Jo is a only one foreigner student.

First VS Second

I'm currently 6 weeks pregnant, some might have known about my news through MSN and mybabybay's forum. Now, I'm announcing officially here. The following is my comparisons about my first and second. Hehe...though it seems like too early to compare the first and the second.

First
I hate onion smell as earlier as about 5 weeks pregnant.
Second
I love to eat onion especially the onion biscuit.

First
I could finish a tin milk (Anmum or EnfaMama) within 5 days(shortest) or 7 days (longest).
Second
A month is overed, but i only able to finish the half tin.

First
I didn't have special craving.
Second
I have a craving for curry (curry fish's head), spicy (nasi lemak) and Nescafe.

First
I didn't feel tired and didn't suffer backpain.
Second
I feel tired everyday and i have backpain.

First
Not really remember whether i had discharged or not.
Second
I have discharge.

First
I ate 3 meals a day.
Second
I eat more than 3 meals a day.

First
I could eat a same food for few days even for few weeks.
Second
I can't eat What i have eaten yesterday as i would feel squeamish.

First
My face was shiny and my skin was smooth.
Second
You can see i have few pimples over the face.

First
I could drink plain water.
Second
I hate plain water. So, i have to put some lemon slices to impart flavour to water.

First
I felt everything is normal.
Second
I feel abnormal especially my mouth is tasteless all the time and what my nose can smell just a smoky smell. But nobody smells the same as me. I feel like being suffocated soon.

First
I didn't take any sour pickles.
Second
I love sour and juicy pickles.

First
I had urged to pee few times a night.
Second
I don't have any urge to pee.

First
I had muscle cramped.
Second
Same as first time.

First
I won't ask for When i seeing something very yummy.
Second
I have to eat it immediately when i have the desire. Just can't be waited!

First
I remembered to take my pills on time.
Second
I always forget to take my pills.

First
Started my pregnancy with fever.
Second
Started my pregnancy with fever, flu, cough and eyes infection.

First
I didn't have morning sickness. I never threw.
Second
Till now, i still don't have. Hopefully i won't have.

First
I got lotsa gas inside my stomach, when i had urged to throw, it's just a gas. However, i didn't have stomach ache.
Second
Same as first time. But i have stomach ache.

First
I never drunk coffee.
Second
I almost have my Nescafe every morning.

So, what do you think about the baby's gender? Boy or girl? Gender isn't important for the moment, i just hope my nose can back to normal, i want fresh air! Please...

Today Lesson

I flashed the word cards to Jo this afternoon, the words are 牙(tooth)，心(heart)，口(mouth)，脸(face)，眼(eye)，手(hand)，耳(ear), 头(head) and 足(leg). I did "animation and sound effect" for every single word. When i read "heart", i would give the heart pounding sound and tapping my heart simultaneously, then pronounce "heart" clearly to him by looking the "han-yu-ping-ying", as i have to make sure my pronunciation is correct. We do hope Jo can speak standard Mandarin that we can't as our Mandarin just too many "ROJAK". I flashed thrice and started to examine him (see mommy so kiasu), he turned out to be surprisingly as he can recognize the words "mouth", "face" and "tooth". He was pointing the particular parts correctly though he didn't pronounce the words to me. It's not by coincidence, he pointing the particular parts correctly twice, but of course just confined for that 3 words. What do you expect since today is a first day i flashed him the Chinese words, not bad LOL!

For the alphabet, i'm quite concerned how did he learn it. He still can't recite A to Z, but the way he learns is definitely special. He can tell me "apple" and "aeroplane" when he's pointing A, "boy" or "ball" when he's pointing B and etc....but, he doesn't know how to say "A" when i pointing A and so does others. So weird, but since this is his method of learning ABC, so i just let him be LOL!

First Wet

Jo didn't wet his pants or bed since 23/9/06 (the day he started diaperless), but he has broken the NOT WET RECORD yesterday night. At around 12:30am, i saw him turnover his body from back to chest and i saw him pulling his pants, i felt weird and thought that maybe have something biting him, i was shocked when i touched his pants, ya, the pants was saturated. However, the bed is dry. I quickly took him to potty and the potty was crammed half full of his urine. That's the first time...

I hate this..."Why MIA"

I've been quiet on my blog over the week, not because i was busy, but have to THANK the government here to block the "beta.blogger.com". Hey, no matter how you blocking it, i still have my OWN WAY to login, see, i can post now!