Jo is started to show his masculine act that he wants to be stronger and even bigger in size. As he said, he wants to protect his mommy.
M - Jojo, you're a bad guy.
J - No, i'm a policeman.
M - You're a monster.
J - No, i'm a policeman.
M - You're a monster.
J - No, i'm Ultraman. (His favor personated character)
M - You're a little mouse.
J - No, i'm a cat.
M - OK, you're a cat.
J - No, i'm "Alex The Lion". (Sure you will know who is Alex The Lion if you ever watched Madagascar before)
M - You're a monkey.
J - No, i'm a pig, pig 胖胖(fat), monkey 廋廋(thin).
M - You're a frog.
J - No, i'm kangaroo 会跳跳 (can jump jump).
But when i said he is a kor-kor now, he will insist he is still a baby!
A myth saying that little kids always can predict a correct gender by asking them, so i asked Jo,
M - Jojo, mommy's baby is di-di or mei-mei?
J - mei-mei.
5 mins after, i asked him again,
M - Jojo, mommy's baby is di-di or mei-mei?
J - Is a monster. (是怪兽）
M - *speechless*
Another 5 mins after,
M - The baby is mei-mei or di-di?
J - di-di.
So, is what?
The other day, he even stepped my tummy and said "I don't like the baby, i want to step the baby". Why suddenly acted so cruel and not thoughtful? Emm..I think the mind of sibling rivalry has being started and sprouting gradually at this moment.
21 comments:
eh dun ask him about the baby edi. My fren also asked the son whether he want a didi or meimei, he say he dun want.. straight away blood came out and she lost her baby. Sooner or later he will slowly accept it when he see yr tummy gets bigger...
It's still too young for him to visualize the baby in your tummy. Wait unitl the tummy gets bigger first. BTW, it helps to let him see the ultrascan too...
Aiyo..becareful lor..try not to let Jo step on your tummy. Be extremely careful.
A nice pic of Jo with his daddy :)
Give him some time to get used to having a sibling.. Meantime enjoy time alone with Jo :)
Hello Huisan aunt.... long time no c...Congrate for the "New Life"(pregancy)
JO 还需要时间适应贝比的到来。我儿子小时也不懂什样疼妹妹，可以说欺负多过疼。现在有时会帮我喂妹妹吃饭，甚至还会tam她。
Maybe there's a didi and also a mei mei.. loong-feng-tai.. :P
Zara's mama
wah so nice pic!...envy envy all the scrapbooking u mommies can do.
哈！哥哥在吃宝宝的醋了。
~荦怡
hmm it's normal what jo is going thru..sibling rivalry is like part of life and we have to guide along the way lor..
wei wei, slowly teach him to sayang the baby, get him excited about baby also... can't blame them for having the rivalry thoughts, as they have always been the one and only mar...
must also give him the assurance that when baby comes, u will still love him as much...
Jo jealous lor.
Bb likes to put his ear on my tummy and listen. He then will call bb. haha.
I like the wood and forest too. Nice!
Haha, Didi or Mei Mei ar? So anxious to know. Aiyo, Jo Jo is getting jealous. Maybe u shouldn't ask him dat way and don't always mention didi or mei mei. He might sense dat u're giving the didi or mei mei the attention and neglecting him. Give him time to adapt. Just tell him didi/mei mei is eager to get out to see and play with him. Get him to touch ur tummy and feel it. U can get him a gift to be presented to didi/mei mei when he/she comes out.
I did not know about belief that the sibling can tell the gender of the next child.
Waiseh, you also start to do scrap. Can teach me ah?
I had a friend who tells me whenever she scolds the son, the son will say "I am a transformer", transform to disappear.
You have real cute conversation with your son.
aiks...he seems to have mood swing over the baby :). No worries ler, keep educating him, he will very soon able to accept.
Ur scrapbooking getting better :)
Jo is just growing up. It's normal to feel jealous or unwanted. Even when we're adults eh? Just teach him how to tell you that he's feeling sad, jealous..then tell him that there is only one special Joshua Lai in your heart. When baby comes out, then teach him that there's only ONE Jo..and ONE (baby's name) in your heart. Keep telling him this.
what?! step on ur tummy?? no way! so cruel... don't ask him this kind of questions any more lah, I think he really is jealous loh.
he is just jealous that soon he has to share his mommy and daddy. must continue to assure him that u will still love him the same when the new baby comes. :D
Jo seems really witty. Its true that they will slowly accept the baby.Harvynna used to jump on my tummy but I think it was more that she did not understand
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