I saw USD100 per post twice at midnight!

I saw but i couldn't do anything..

The first time i saw this USD100 was around 1:15am, of course i wasn't that lucky to grab it. The second time i saw this was about 4am, and this shown to me : -

A good tale which is very good to describe this "not your money not go in your pocket"! I do believe..

And whole midnight i felt myself very "hak" (bad luck), i helped my sister booking Airasia ticket around 1am, but only able to access their server around 2am, while everything was keying correctly, the current suddenly cut off right after the page is collecting my credit card information..and this morning i checked, the transaction is failed. So, i have to book again. I couldn't sleep well after the current cut off as the wind was roaring at outside and the windows and doors seemed like not able to withstand the wind somemore...current back around 3am, i woke up to do some blog hopping and even PPP till 5am then only back to bed...

People asked me why i always can grab the high paying post, so do you know why? No sweet bedtime is the reason...

Tag : All regarding blogger

Tagged by Scribbles for my angels. Actually i purposely asked her to tag me la..

1) Who is the 1st blogger you meet?
Jazzmint lo...she visited me during her vacation to China.

2) Who is the ‘Most Wanted to Meet’ blogger for you?
Emm..should be immomsdaughter as she seems so mysterious to me....Actually others i also wanted to meet la...those mummies in KL and in Singapore..

3) Who is the ‘I could meet, want wanted to meet but somehow never got to meet’ blogger?
I think should be Julian since we're staying in same town (KK) but i never paid him a visit la...shame shame..

4) Who are the group of bloggers you most wanted to meet?
Those "8-po" group always my favourite. I bet you know which group la...:)

5) Do you have bloggers/blog readers that you wish to meet right now?
Emm..maybe is Misha's mother since she staying in Hong Kong, just nearby my place.

Tag finished..this sentence again "i won't tag anyone"!

Block and unblock! I don't think it's cute!

Do you notice the alignment in my sidebar is quite messy, some sticked on left and some sticked on centre. I do hope can arrange them into proper alignment, but most of you know China always loves to BLOCK blogspot, the "gomen" here acts very funny as they can block the blogspot for few days then allow blogspot be accessible for few days, this circle keeps on turning, so most of the time i also don't know when they will block the blogspot and when they will release the blogspot.

Since they always block the blogspot, so normally i am using PROXY to view my page, but by using PROXY, you never known what has been appearing in your side bar, that's why i always can't view my page properly so i also can't clean up my alignment problem too. But, i know those things in my side bar are very messy since some of my friends kept telling me about the untidiness. Sorry la..i can't do anything..

I want daughter!

M - Jo, come and massage mommy's back.
J - I feel my back pain too. You massage for me la..
M - You don't love your mommy?
J - I love, but i won't massage for you.
M - *speechless*

Suddenly i feel so sad, i think my biggest regret is i don't have daughter, if i have daughter, i am sure she will do this for me without asking her to do so. This is a difference between son and daughter. Son always acts inconsiderate than daughter...And, all of sudden, i am thinking maybe i need to "chase" one daughter for myself, just in case there is ONE who is willing to take care us! Sigh..

Hubby is back..

Finally hubby is back...

Jo greeted his papa even it's almost 3am on that time, he just so pleased to see his papa again and kept telling what had happened for the past few days.

That's what hubby bought from the trip..be frankly, i like non of them.. :)

My upstair neighbour

I tell you...

I no longer can stand this upstair neighbour as he is so irritating. Well, this time i will act hard to make a complaint to the management again. Two weeks ago, this neighbour was boldly pouring water down to my balcony, i guess he was washing his balcony, fine, you could wash you balcony but it doesn't mean you could simply pour the water like you're staying in landed house. Don't you know your DIRTY water wetted my balcony and wetted my clothes that hung over there?? OK, wet isn't a big issue to argue with, i would zip my mouth without a word if it's a clean water and if the clean water accidentally wetted my balcony. But...no, i heard the brushing sound so i knew that he's actually washing his balcony on that moment. Hubby gave him a loud sound to signal him he shouldn't clean like this way, but no response and the water kept pouring down. Hubby got furious and went up to press his door bell, one pressed, two pressed, first door knocked, second door knocked...no response, hubby came down with steaming head as this guy totally ignored my hubby. So, hubby called the management and informed there's a GUY doing such an inconsiderate matter..but we still saw the water pouring down even after hubby made the call..

Then the next morning, my balcony was scattered by cigarette ash. OK, don't count the irritated cigarette smoke as we share the air together, but please, don't simply drop your cigarette ash down as we almost can see the ashes in our balcony everyday. If your house don't have the ashtray you tell me la..sure i will buy one for you...

Slow PPP's page loading.

My China internet connection is extremely running well and fast if compare with the Streamy connection in Malaysia. I can download everything in split seconds. But this fast connection just can't accessible for my PPP's page loading. It always takes few minutes to load a page everytime after i clicked on the login button. Then take another few minutes again to show me the "Qualified Opportunities". Gosh, can you tell me how to grab the "BIG MONEY" if the page is always loading for ages?

Well, i know currently everyone works hard for PPP until the traffic is so congested!

Just ranting a bit here la, somemore this morning missed out few $10 posts!!

The second day without hubby

Countdown post.

The picture shown what Jo and mummy did on the second day without hubby along. FYI, Jo was still sound asleep while i was doing my blog hopping & PPP. He seemed so tired yesterday, maybe due to the throwing at the night before..We had fun during our night playtime, he kept asking me impersonated as Ultraman and fought with him. And was even impersonating myself to be Barbie Doll, of course requested by him. Have you ever seen a Barbie with a bloated tummy? That's me..

1 more day to go...

Head scratching again..

About my ranting..

I have to scratch my head and use my brain again everytime i finish my "money making dream". Be frankly, i run out of things to write, so friends, if you would like to pass me a tag, i welcome it and will give you back a big and happy smile! :) Please, more tags come along..

As you seen in my blog, it's no longer a blog for my little Jo as it becomes assorted blog for fulfilling my earning dream. Isn't sound bad? I feel bad sometimes, but just can't pull myself out from the trap. So i have to say SORRY to all of my loyalty readers, thousands of apologizes for including money making posts here. I know i am bad too, i was so rarely to blog before i joined P.P.P, and now i can consider myself as a prolific blogger. I know i sound like very materialistic again..*sob sob*!

Anyway, i feel glad if you still drop by yourself to read my blog, you know, your visit really mean for me! Thanks for accepting me as a member of P.P.P.

OK, have to stop now as it's a time to go back to my slumberland again..

The first night without hubby

Countdown post.

Both Jo and mummy stayed up late at the first night without hubby around, Jo gave me a big mess about the time we're ready to bed. He threw on the bed right after he finished his milk. OMG..i think he has very weak digestive system as the sausage he taken during afternoon still not fully digested at night!! After cleaning up the mess and changing the bedsheet, the time was about 12 midnight. Jo dozed off immediately once i off the light, but mummy still very awoke (though yawning nonstop) and able to chat with Sue. :)

Hopefully i can have a smooth second night with Jo, probably will do something with him like building up his Lego set. Another 2 more days to go..

Hubby is away..

View of "Li Jiang".

Hubby was off to "Li Jiang" yesterday night for 4 days 3 nights department trip, Jo and me supposed to join the trip but finally we didn't go as the travel agent said i am not advisable to join the trip. This trip actually is more on hiking, somemore it's a long bus ride (approximately 10 to 12 hours) to "Li Jiang".

In fact, i don't mind to have the long bus ride, i just thinking to have at least one trip before No.2 is arriving. You know, i deprived a trip, a good and happy trip. But ended, my hope has spoilt. It's daunt for me to take care Jo alone as he's very demanding recently, somemore this trip fell on our precious weekend, as Jo only has chance to go out on weekend, but now, he has to stay another week till the next weekend coming. I know he miss his papa very much as he cried badly the moment papa was stepping outside. Very heartbroken to see his teary eyes and redness nose.

Hubby coaxed him but seemed useless, eventually he being forced to tell him a white lie that he's going to "kill" the wild boar so he can't bring Jo along. But you know how was Jo answered him?

J - You bring me there, i stand beside.

P - Cannot, the wild boar is very fierce.

J - Don't be afraid, God will come.

P - You stay at home and eat your cake, is it ok?

J - No, i bring along the cake, i eat the cake here, you kill the wild boar there.

P - *speechless*

We used wild boar as our white lie because the news was broadcasting the wild boar has intruded into the city at the moment hubby about to leave, so we just used this idea to make another story in order to let Jo believed his papa going to be a hero to kill the wild boar. Of course the idea not success. So hubby just ignored his crying and left the house.

The story not ended yet..
M - Papa will be back soon.

J - No, papa won't come back again.

M - Why?

J - He'll die.

I very "pantang" this kind of words when someone is leaving for a trip, somemore Jo is still very young so i really don't know why he knew how to say this. So i quickly called my hubby and told him, hubby felt unsecure too and fell into dilemma. Go or not go? I told him, God will be with you, you just pray, just go ahead if you feel the peace is with you. Hubby called me back after he reached at office, he said he wanted to come back home as he doesn't want to leave Jo. But how to tell people you don't want to join since you're already there? No choice, just join.

Of course, i feel unsecure here too...but i'll pray hard for him.

After our dinner, Jo came to me and asked,

J - Why papa still not home yet?

M - Because he needs to work.

J - No, he is going to kill the wild boar, he said he'll bring back the wild boar for me to eat.

M - You dare to eat the wild boar?

J - Can cook it ma...

Sigh, i know he'll ask me this question thousands of times every now and then till his papa is back. My little poor boy..

PSP or Nintendo?

Hubby thinking to buy one Nintendo for Jo as his Hong Kong's colleague told him it's very good for kids, as his daughter has learnt a lot of vocabularies from Nintendo. But pardon me, Nintendo is a game, right? I think i'm quite outdated of the latest gadgets in the market, be frankly, first time i heard can learn vocabulary from Nintendo, in my mindset, i always relate Nintendo to Super Mario, i have never thought that nowadays technology has gone that far..

But, don't you think my hubby is overly spoiling Jo? He is just 3 years old, i don't think presently is a right time to let him explore into game world. Then hubby suggested maybe can buy PSP so that he can play too. But, it's really worthwhile to spend the money like this? HK1800 for one, worth meh???

What is your suggestion? Buy or not to buy? Good for kids?

A test to know you're truly a CHINESE

Got this from Elaine.

Found that very interesting, you know, sometime Chinese is being rated as "yau sat guo, mou fong guo" (有杀过，没放过), if you want to know are you truly a Chinese, then you can take up this questionnaire. If your answer is more than 50% “Yes”, then you are very “Chinese”.

1. You like to eat chicken feet. [YES]

2. You suck on fish heads and fish fins. [YES, but only fried one]

3. You sing karaoke [YES]

4. Your house is covered with tiles. [YES]

5. Your kitchen is covered with a sticky film of grease. [NO]

6. Your stove is covered with aluminum foil. [NO]

7. You leave your plastic cover on your remote control. [YES]

8. You never kiss your mum or your dad. [YES]

9. You have worn glasses since your were in the Fifth grade. [NO]

10. Your hair sticks up when you get up. [NO]

11. You’ll haggle over something that is non negotiable. [NO]

12. You love to use coupons. [YES]

13. You drive around for hours looking for the best parking space. [NO]

14. You take showers at night. [YES]

15. You avoid the non-free snacks in hotel rooms. [YES]

16. You don’t mind squeezing 20 people into one motel room. [NO]

17. Most girls have more body hair than you, if you are a male. [NO]

18. You have a Christian name, although you are a Buddhist. [NO]

19. You tap the table when someone pours tea for you. [NO]

20. You say “aiya” and “wah” frequently. [YES]

21. You love Las Vegas, slot machines, and Blackjack. [NO]

22. You unwrap Xmas gifts carefully, so that you can use the wrapper paper again. [NO]

23. You use vinyl table cloth on the kitchen table. [NO]

24. You use dishwasher as a dish rack. [NO]

25. You save grocery bags, tin foils and tin containers. [YES, tin foils for redemption - MJ club]26. You have a piano in your living room. [NO]

27. You pick your teeth at the dinner table (but you cover your mouth) [NO]

28. You hate to waste food. [YES]

29. You have a Tupperware in the fridge with 3 bites of rice or one leftover chicken wing. [NO]30. You have a collection of miniature shampoo bottles, taken from hotels. [NO]

31. Your dad thinks he can fix everything himself. [NO]

32. You beat eggs with chopsticks. [NO]

33. You like congee with thousand-year-old egg. [NO]

34. You prefer your shrimps with heads and legs still attached. [NO]

35. You never call your parents to say Hi. [NO]

36. If you live outside, and when your parents call, they’ll ask if you have eaten, even if it is midnight. [NO]

37. When you're sick, your parents will ask you to refrain from eating fried food, and diagnosed your sickness as “yit hei” [YES]

38. You starve yourself before going to all-u-can-eat places. [NO]

39. You always know someone who can get you a good deal on jewelry or electronics. [NO]

40. Even if totally full, and when someone suggested throwing away the leftover on the table, you will finish them. [YES]

41. When you visit homes, you bring along oranges (or other produce) as gifts. [NO]

42. You fight over who pays the dinner bill. [YES]

43. You major in something practical, like engineering, medicine or law. [NO]

44. You are 30 yrs old, you still live with your parents, and they prefer it that way. [NO]

45. You are 30 yrs old and married, you live in an apartment next door to your parents, or at least in the same neighbourhood. [NO]

46. You eat every last grain of rice in your bowl, but decline to eat the last piece of food on the table. [YES]

47. Your favourite number is 3 or 8. [8]

48. You know why we must end this with 48. [NO]

31 out of 48 is [NO]! Test has shown that I am not a CHINESE, but i tell you explicitly, I AM truly a CHINESE! No fake!

Mother isn't included during his playtime.

Jo was showing his ultramen to me while i was cooking in the kitchen,

J - (by holding the big size one) This is papa Ultraman.

J - (by holding the small size one) This is Jojo Ultraman.

M - Where is mummy? No mummy?

J - Mummy Ultraman hasn't bought yet.

M - You go and buy one for Mummy.

J - Cannot, we need to save the money buy nen-nen for didi.

See, he just excluded me while he's playing happily in the living room.

Jo loves to watch Ultraman all the while. We actually bought him a lot of relevant stuffs to play with, he does enjoy those stuffs and he would hold them while he is watching the Ultraman. All the Ultraman's stuffs have already became as his good companion, as he would talk to them while nobody plays with him, he even brings them to sleep and share his quilt to them, sounds so lonely, right?

Due to pregnant so i barely watch Ultraman with him as old folk tale saying pregnant woman shouldn't watch something not pretty...but, i always have a story teller who is able to story the whole series for me, thanks to my story teller Mr. Joshua!

Tag - Facts About my Jo

I was quite thick face to ask Michelle pass this tag to me..*big smile* as i really need something to write in between my PPP posts.

On the Outside
Name: Joshua
Date of birth: 15th March
Current status: pre-schooler
Eye colour: Black
Hair colour: Brownish
Righty or lefty: not sure yet

On the Inside
Heritage: Chinese
Fear: Monster
Weakness: Afraid of thunder sound.
His perfect pizza : Any pizza with lots of "sausage" toppings.

His picks
Pepsi or Coke: Coke (loyalty supporter)
McDees or Burger King : McDees
Adidas or Nike : Mummy prefers Adidas, so Jo has to oblige.
Lipton Tea or Nestea : Yet to introduce to him.
Chocolate or Vanilla : I think neither for him.
Cappucino or Coffee : I think neither for him again.

In the past month
Gone to the mall : Yes, once or twice every week.
Been on stage : During infant baptism, include?
Eaten sushi : Yet to try.

What were he doing?
1 minute ago: Sleeping.
1 hour ago: Sleeping.
4 1/2 hours ago: Playing with his papa.
1 month ago: Read my blog to find out and inform me back.
1 year ago: Read my blog to find out and inform me back.

Finish the sentence
He loves: watching TV.
He feels: secure with papa.
He hates: vege.
He hides: mummy's cane.
He misses: his cousins.
He needs: to learn how to hold the pensil properly.

I'm always so kindness to everyone. So, i won't pass the tag..

10th Anniversary Reunion Party Photos (96's legacy)

This is a backdated post.

It has passed 10 years since i was graduated from Tshung Tsin, time passes so fast just like blinking eyes. This year, our batch had organised a grand reunion party in Sutera Harbour on 20 February 07 (third day of Chinese New Year).

I was thrilled to meet some of my old friends who came back from "worldwide", shameful to say, some i have already forgotten their name. And i was glad to see some already became a mother or daddy and even some brought along their kids. That's a wonderful reunion party though not everyone was there. I think just 1/3 of attendants from our 96's legacy.

Anyway, thanks to those people involved and made the party successfully celebrated. I'm looking forward to have this reunion party again!

p/s: the 2 pretty ladies in black in the last photo are my best friends since i was 13, currently, one is in US and another is in Singapore.

Variety of Italy noodles

Found their name from magazine, so paste it here for future reference. I always like to eat Italy food, but normally the menu served in Italy restaurant seldom display all the pictures of the noodle. So i always wrong order something which isn't within my desired.

Oh, Pizza Hut in Hong Kong is serving Pasta Perfetto..sounds delicious, huh?!

p/s: click the photo for more clearer images and texts.

Cheeky cheeky smile

Lately, Jo always shows me his expectant face wanted to welcome the arrival of his little brother. Although i have told him few times that baby will only come out on July, he still asking me religiously everyday when will his brother come out and play with him. Seems like he is quite confused of what is day, week, month and year. The other day, he even said "1 is not enough, i want meimei too, i want 2 meimei." See, very greedy, i only want one daughter but he said he wants 2. Anyway, 2 kids are enough for us, i don't think i am able to bear another since my age is catching up and health is no longer as fit as my previous.

Jo develops a new habit, whatever happened on him then he wants me to "inform" the baby inside. If he said his hand is painful then he would insist me to tell his little brother regarding his painful hand. So, the rest of the time excluded the TV time, i have to "inform" my baby about everything which Jo likes to share with. Sound overwhelming again, right? However, i think it's good to develop this habit, perhaps next time can ease some sibling rivalry problems.

Everytime when we're lazing on the bed, he would show me with his "4 fingers" to determine which one is papa, mummy, himself and baby. At first, he didn't include baby as his reason is baby still not out yet so couldn't count in. But now, i am glad that he knows how to count in his little brother. Apart from that, he has started to allocate which bed is for baby, i told him mummy will sleep with baby and he will sleep with papa, but he said "no, i sleep beside mummy and baby sleeps beside Jojo", then i asked him "how about papa?", he pointed to the floor and said "papa sleeps there"...haha, papa must be very sad provided he knows this sentence.

I've been brainwashed him though he never shown me his jealousy towards his little brother, i purposely do this just for in case, who knows the actual situation when the baby is really arrived. I told Jo next time you help mummy to make milk for baby, his answer definitely cute when he answered "I am not tall enough, see, my hand very short too." Anyway, i believe he always there to help me out as he is a considerated boy! This's much more better than his papa! LOL!

Maid drives me to nuts

This is a backdated post regarding my maid.

We are blessed to have FOC maid that allocated by hubby's company. She comes everyday and do some house chores like doing laundry and cleaning jobs. She is the third one, the first one being shifted to other department so the company allocated another one to me, the second so far OK but she made me insane one day as she asked me to clean and arrange the bedroom by myself. I told hubby, hubby decided to change her as he thought that she's quite lazy to order missis back. So come to the third, i was back to Sabah the second day she was here, so basically nobody teached her much on how to do everything (just like Indo maid, no eyes see when Indo first stepping at your doorstep, you can imagine that like they have never used IRON and washing machine before).

I was shocked when i just back from Sabah on March, the laundry bag was BLACK in color, my hubby's towel from blue color to dark blue color, from yellow to brown color and don't count the socks in as some socks were lost. Apart from the clothes, the toilet's wall like 1 year nobody washed it. The basin from white to brownish...etc..Somemore, the balcony, just covered by thick dust like nobody stays in this house. I think people would think my house is a empty house!

Then i asked my hubby "you never realized the dirty while i was not here?" He answered yes but gave me a very helpless looked then he replied again "that's why i ain't dare to let her wash my expensive clothes, i even wash for myself". What?? Tell her your dissatisfaction la..my dear!

Tagging time again...

Was tagged by Angeleyes about what is inside my bag. In fact, i had done this tag long long time ago until i can't remember when, might be on May 2006. Anyway, no harm to do this tag again as the stuffs inside my bag no longer be the same as last time.

This's my currently used bag, for a hermit SAHM is actually nothing special inside the bag. Normally just an umbrella, digital camera, mobile phone, water bottles (Jo and mine), house key, security card, tissue and money ( i don't hold wallet in China). See, so basically needed for an outgoing yellow-face lady...i don't own any lipstick or cosmetic stuff as i couldn't find a good reason to have one.

Don't feel weird about the size of my bag although nothing much inside. Personally i like "giant" size bag that can match me since i'm giant size. That's good to have big size bag, imagine you can dump everything in after doing your grocery shopping...Sigh, that's why i said i'm definitely a yellow-face lady!

Hehe..sounds so simple to finish this tag. Anyway, thanks Angeleyes to pass me this tag as i'm out of idea what to write before my PPP. Angeleyes, please accept my wet smooch!!

Again, i'm not going to pass the tag to anyone.

Mother and son talked

I took a bottle of water for Jo right after our lunch yesterday,

M - Finish the water.
J - I don't want water, i want nen-nen (milk).
M - Finish water first then only nen-nen.
J - (start mumbling) I don't want water, do you know why i want nen-nen?
M - I don't know.
J - (start screaming) You can't say "you don't know", you must say "because Jojo doesn't want water but want nen-nen".
J - (start questioning again) Why i want nen-nen?
M - Because Jojo doesn't want water but want nen-nen.

Jo looked satisfying after i said the last sentence. Don't you feel overwhelming of his sentences? Yes for me! I was under compelled to please him.

Is it a butterfly?

Jo drew this, but i bet nobody knows what is it, i also don't know when i took the first glance. Do you know what is it?

Ok, according to Jo, it's a BUTTERFLY. LOL! He said it's the butterfly printed in my maternity cloth, well, he noticed my cloth has butterfly but please, it doesn't look like this..

But, i won't strike his confidence as i believe practise makes perfect. That's my believe, keep on believing will make the wish come true!

Coca-Cola "Zero"

I have this Coca-Cola collection habit since i was in college. I stored up them in few big Fed-Ex boxes when i was studying in KL. I like them very much and sometimes i would arrange them and took them a picture. You can imagine how crazy am i! But i gave away them to my cousin before shipping all my stuffs back to Sabah, i felt very heart-broken when my cousin moved those boxes into his car..

Recently i found out this "Zero", it tastes better than diet coke. In fact, it tastes is almost like the normal red can one but it's zero sugar. This "Zero" just started on rack in HK, and quite cheap too, HKD15 for 4 cans. Good again for collection. But hubby and Jo are eyeing on my "Zero" lately, i ain't sure whether this "Zero" can survive till i bring them back to Sabah or not?

What a "manic" Easter Day

We supposed to have our Easter Holiday in HK and go to church on the Easter Day. But we've had to shelve the plan as we couldn't find a "cheap" hotel during this 5 days holiday in HK. Jo looked quite ok at the morning, he woke up around 9ish and we went out for brunch after his favourite "SPD" show.

After brunch, we took a long walk to other places that we aren't so familiar with, we walked and hunted all over the place to discover more about our area. Jo started his crankiness about that time after he saw his favourite Abare's (AKA Power Ranger) toy hanging on the rack. He yelled as trying to prevail his situation that he wanted to buy, but i was staying firm too as i don't want this habit always happens that we have "toy" to bring back home after each out. Somemore, he has too many toys at home..i rarely see him playing them and i found out he just has habit to buy new toy everytime we're out.

He stopped his crankiness after few coaxing by hubby (hubby always does great job to coax Jo, perhaps he does have much patience with his son) but he started his crankiness again once we reached home. We did bring him to park before headed home, he was enjoying himself there and it has been quite a while we didn't bring him out to park. We fulfilled whatever he asked, even he had his boat rowing though i hate it very much. I felt sick while the boat was stopping at the middle of the lake.

Upon our arrival at home, my rest of the day was filled with his hysterical sobbing, even my hubby couldn't stand his cried, so don't say me. He keeps saying he wants the Abare toy till now. I hope he can forget it but seems like he has very good memory now, he could talk in great detail on what had happened on Easter day without missing a single part. The most funniest part he said is "i shee-shee to the lake while i was rowing the boat". He looked so proud when he said this...why? Is it bacause his urine like "fountain"? Pardon me to let him peeing there, no choice as we're at the middle of the lake...

Another episode..

I like to go out despite just an hour or even lesser. I think no SAHM like to be a hermit as SAHM still needs breathing a fresh air outside after a whole day being confined at home. But recently i found out that i hate going out, i hate to take the public transport here as it's like going to kill me, seriously to say but it's true. Like last Sunday, the bus driver boldly closed the back door while half of my body still inside the bus and i had to use my hands to block the door from closing. You can imagine how dangerous for a pregnant woman and a little boy. Apart from that, the driver also like F1 driver who wanted to show his driving skill, he could simply step on the accelerator or brake like nobody inside the bus. If you ever tried the pink colour mini-bus in KL, then you probably know how terrible of the public transport here. Here even triple worst than the pink mini-bus.

But i was so tempted to have pizza yesterday night after reading Mom2Ashley's blog, prior to go out, i only realized i don't have Winter suit that can cover my whole body, somemore Jo kept yelling there as don't want to wear this and that, i tell you, he definitely challenged my patience. I yelled too, I think i suffered some hormones imbalance that i easily to get angry lately, even a small matter would outbreak into a serious matter. Perhaps i'm deprived of a good sleep or some peaceful time..

Of course being a mother always can prevail the situation as finally i dressed Jo successfully. I don't know why he hates his red Winter jacket, i have to give in more effort everytime i dress him with this red jacket. It's freezing and raining outside, so i don't have other choice, my dear. And, i just grabbed my hubby's suit for myself, the suit isn't nice but acceptable. Please, freezing fast fast go away, i totally don't have enough long shirts and pants that can cover my bloated tummy. Of course i won't buy any new set since i'm going back to Sabah soon.

This's the second time we went to Pizza Hut, to my suprise, Jo was quite enjoying his meal. He took the Black Forest cake, the fries, 2 slices of Pastrami pizza and half bowl of chicken cream soup. I never thought that he likes pizza as the first time we had to order rice for him (yeah, Pizza Hut in China served rice as well) to munch of. This time was so GREAT!

We did a while shopping after our dinner, but hubby wanted to blast the toilet so we had to head back home. He's so hurrying the moment we reached home, Jo also learnt from him, took off his pants and threw on the floor. Jo excuse is "i do what papa does", see, parents always impress their kids either good or bad habit. But what i observing here, it's all bad habits! The other day, Jo even told me "i don't like reading, i want to watch TV just like papa". Why he never learnt from me? I seldom glue myself in front of the TV and i like reading.

Having ice-cream during freezing day..

It's freezing outside (unusual temperature dropped to 11 degree) although the Spring is officially here. I was initially thinking to let Jo painting the eggs as the Easter is just around the corner, i've some inspiration to scrap those "Easter eggs" if the eggs are "groovy" enough. But since the weather is cold so i think better don't paint first as after painting sure it'll be a big disaster to clean up the mess.

The weather definitely seems like "nothing" to him as he insisted to have the mini ice-cream cone after his lunch. He even went and picked the ice-cream from the freezer, dear, my hand felt freezing while i taking it out from the freezer, again, he seemed responseless to the chill. So, both son and mummy was enjoying the ice-creams happily there.

Maybe i took too much of it as at the late night i have been feeling a bit tummy uncomfortable and having some discharge. I think i should control a bit about my gluttonous of eating cold stuffs although pregnant lady always feels the body heat.

The conversation (in Mandarin) between us before i pursuing him to sleep..

M - Faster go ooi-ooi.

J - I want you to carry me.

M - Cannot as mummy's tummy has baby, you walk yourself to bedroom.

J - I can't walk as the floor so cold.

M - You can wear your shoe.

J - Doctor said i can't wear shoe.

M - Why?

J - Doctor said ma...

Left me puzzling there...of course end up i did carry him, i barely carry him as he grows up, he's just too heavy for me though i miss the feel of carrying him!

Tag - why i married my other half?

Tagged by Nicole about why i married my other half?

Here it goes..

• He was the first guy to date me out when i was studying in KL. So, just no time for other guys!
• He's Sabahan too, although we're not from same "kampung" (he's from Kudat, i'm from KK), at least no big argument when comes to HOLIDAY! Our only main heading place is KK, Sabah.
• I am tall, so i have to find one more taller than me. That's him!
• He's my senior from same secondary school, so we knew the same teachers and buddies. His friends are mine friends, my friends are his friends! So, we have same topic to "kae-poh-ing".
• He's a Christian and make prayer everyday.
• He's an athlete, i always "head-over-heels-in-love" to sunny guy.
• He has strong financial mindset, so i guess i won't be "hungry" and "no money" when together with him.
• He can play guitar well and did sing for me at the very early courtship time. (I was still below 20 that time).
• He's a soft-speaking guy, so i always WIN when comes to quarrel.
• He very "cin-cai" when comes to food, so he won't mind his wife is a lousy cooker.
• He's my first to many many things..so i couldn't see other points for not choosing him. That's why i married him.

However, story always different after getting married..agree??

Not tagging anyone! Happy enough!

Finally it hits 100!

Jo's pretending to be a pregnant lady, photo taken on 2 April 07.

Another one short month to celebrate the 1 year opening of blogspot, shameful to say that now only able to hit 100 posts. I know i am not a prolific blogger, but recently i do try my best to post more before i declaring a long blog hiatus on this coming May. I will be so rarely to blog once i going back to Sabah, somemore have to prepare myself for the arrival of No.2.

I was quite behind to start a personal blog, my first journal was jotted on MSN SPACE while Jo was about 15months old, now i think back, phooey....what a waste that i didn't start earlier as i almost forgotten those "bits and pieces" which belong to Jo. It isn't my fault as i was resumed my work quite late after having Jo. (What a good excuse!)

With a blog existence, i'm totally immersed myself in this cyber world. Though i'm a SAHM that rarely go out to catch up with friends, i feel as if i still "updated" with keeping the activity of blog hoppings.

Lately, i'm immersed myself in another hobby of doing scrapbooking and learning Photoshop. I think this's good as at least i still have something to update my personal knowledge, just hopefully my brain isn't being so "deserted" after resigned my programming job on year 2005.

I'm glad to know some mummies and daddies through blog hoppings, i do try my best to read and comment every single post in your site, but recently what a failure has happened as i no longer able to sit long hour in front of the screen (due to high demanding of my son and backpain), so i only able to drop by and read the most recent one. However, i still try my best to finish all i missed! Do forgive me if i didn't comment every single post. I'm appreciated your post as it's truly meant for me. :)

Last, of course have to say "Happy 100 posts"!

Prattling

Picture taken on 21 March 07.

While we're shopping in the mall (天虹广场）yesterday...

Jo had a look on an electronic motorbike and told me that he wanted to buy, i answered him we don't have money and it's too expensive (RMB726), he quickly fumbling in his pocket and showed me his RMB1 happily, then he said "I have money so i can buy"!

See, how "valuable" of RMB1. Just RMB1 could see his happy face!

Happy 1111th day!

Today marks the day of 1111th day from the day Jo was born. How time flies as he is 3 now! In fact 1111th day isn't such a special day to talk about, but just jot down a bit to memorize this day.

weight - 18kg
height - 104cm

1. He loves egg tart, but not the pastry. So, papa has to eat pastry that leftover by Jo.
2. He loves raisin bread, but not the bread. So either papa or mommy has to eat the bread.
3. He loves apple, kiwi and grape.
4. He loves to eat meat especially duck meat.
5. He takes 3 to 4 times milk daily with 8oz per time. Depends on how much he eats during his breakfast. If he is full, then 3 times are enough.
6. He takes 3 meals per day. He is a small eater during breakfast, but lunch and dinner are ok as he can finish a plate of rice (as much as papa).
7. He naps once daily, normally around 2:30pm to 5:30pm. Doze off again around 11pm.
8. He has mild eczema on his legs and hands. Eczema gets worse if he takes duck meat. He needs to apply Cetaphil after each wash.
9. He has sensitive nose so that we have to minimize the use of air-cond. Otherwise, he'll get runny nose easily.
10. He likes to watch fighting cartoon especially Ultraman and Power Ranger, hence he always impersonates himself as either character and wants to buy some "representative" stuffs.
11. He likes to do cycling.
12. He can sing, but mostly like reciting as no rhythmic found.
13. He understands well when we're talking hakka, but hasn't managed to converse well.
14. His favourite catchphrases are "no manners" and "what are you doing"? (In English)
15. He asks tons of question everyday, he'll ask QUESTIONsssssssssss on a simple sentence i said, e.g, if i say "Jo, come here and sit down", then the questions will like never ending comes out from his mouth. Somemore, he likes to ask questions while we're watching TV. So, i think not suitable to bring him to Cinema, as i guess people sure will throw us BANANA.
16. The Crocs's shoe size he wearing is 12-13, but still have some empty space behind as he can't fit size 10-11. Imagine how big of his feet.
17. He wants me to tell him story before bedtime, basically everyday is a same story which created by me. He doesn't like other stories, just want about "the dog bites the bad guy's buttock" story.
18. He uses non-sterilized bottle now (i stop sterilizing his bottles 2 days before his third birthday as i didn't bring the Sterilizer back to China).
19. He takes 2 tablets of spirulina daily. Spirulina is good to prevent constipation. He has constipation sometimes if taking too much of apple.
20. He uses Kodomo (Strawberry flavour) toothpaste now.
21. Other than his blanket, he would hold "something" while he is sleeping. Normally is his toy.

This early morning, he asked me a very funny question, "why my bird bird is standing there?" （做么我的bird-bird会站起来的?）

Hubby answered him "because you want shee-shee". It seems like he is getting older and ready to ask some shameful but must know questions.

What else? I can't remember...will jot it down when i remember.
Happy 1111th day!

The moment we're together...

I like the feel of being touched, i guess so does my baby, but we (hubby and me) seldom do it. Occasionally i would put my hand on my belly if the baby makes me feel uncomfortable with his "unceasing" kicking. But it's less bonding between hubby and the baby, perhaps the enthusiastic of having new is over. We went for the checkup together on my previous pregnancy, but this round, i have to go alone or sometimes with Jo only. Hubby doesn't have much understanding of each scan i go, basically gets the information through phone only. Altogether he just followed me twice to clinic, first on my first checkup on 25.11.06 and the 3D scan on 26.2.07. He didn't have any expression while doctor showing us the clear baby face, his excuse was "i'm thinking about my coming board meeting." That's happened on "our" last scanned before he flown back to China and he wasn't a boon companion as my expectation.

However, Jo is the exceptional as he would take his initiative to "sayang" his brother everyday. He doesn't show any jealousy so far, somemore he is very thoughtful to talk with his brother. He even said "i don't want to buy toys anymore, money give didi buy nen-nen" the other day. But he had forgotten his promise when we passing by the toys shop as he wanted to buy toy again.

Recently Jo told me he wants "more-more" didi and meimei, he then continued to allocate each "didi for mummy, meimei for papa, baby for Jojo", i told him baby will be his didi soon, but he refused it and keeps saying "didi for mummy, meimei for papa, baby for Jojo", so, what does it mean?

I started to feel "something" about my baby yesterday, i guess might be his fist or toes. Hubby said he couldn't feel it though he put his palm on my belly, but he could feel the baby movement and kicking. We wondering what he did inside? Stretching? Yawning? Swimming? Drinking? Suddenly, Jo put his Ultraman's aeroplane and Hello Kitty's camera on the top of my belly, wow..that's amazing to see the aeroplane moving left and right. The baby certainly seemed like having fun with the toys offered by Jo.

The another big headache is during my delivery, i can't ensure whether hubby will be by my side or not? For me, i'm ok with his absence but i don't want him be absent as it's really unfair for the baby. As you miss the moment you will miss it forever, the process won't be returned and be reviewed again. So, should i opt for "induce" and fix the date? Be frankly, i prefer it happens naturally. But who can confirm the date? Unless hubby takes leave earlier, but no point to have empty wait there since nobody knows the exact date coming. Phooey....

p/s: Oh oooohh....another 100 days to go!!

Doodling..

Jo showed me the doodle board and asked me to guess "what is this" while i was lying in the bed. I didn't have an intent stare at the doodle board and asnwered him "i don't know".

So, do you know what is this?

According to him, it's a gun. I took a look again, yeah, it's indeed. Then i told him put the doodle board aside and let papa see it later. He put it aside with his gladness look as he might think his papa certainly would praise him.

He drew this just by coincidence or he is really can draw? Let's see...

However, hopefully he has the artistic genes from his papa instead of me.

Homework = Tags time

Before doing my tags, please let me to burst my complaining!

I was working flat out to get my chores done this morning, by the time i finished it was already 2+ pm. So i put on the mask and lazed on bed, but i didn't get the peaceful rest as Jo kept talking there, he was full of pizzazz to ask me ton of questions, pardon me, some definitely are silly questions. I wanted to scream my lung out that my back is pain and i couldn't turn my body to left or right while i was sleeping on my back, i didn't scream affirmatively and just be silent there. He dozed off after a while as didn't get any response from me. So, now is the best time for me to do my blog hopping and finish my tags!

First tag : Back To The 80's Tag, tagged by Immomsdaughter

How the tag works:
1. Go to PopCulture site.
2. Pick the year you turn 18 years old.
3. Get yourself nostalgic over the songs that year.
4. Write something about how those songs afffected you.
5. Pass it on to five more friends.

I turned 18 when 1996, the following are the popular songs for the year,
1.I Will Remember You - Sarah McLachlan
I love Sarah very much especially her voice. The best song i love is "Angel" (theme song of City of Angel)
2.Forever - Mariah Carey
She's hot singer that time, sure must listen her song. Somemore, the radio kept broadcasting, then how to forget??
3.Name - Goo Goo Dolls
They inspired me especially their name.
4.Because You Loved Me - Celine Dion
Love the lyrics though she doesn't seem pretty..hehe..
5.Head Over Feet - Alanis Morissette
She seems so talented and i love her voice indeed.

BTW, i love Joan Armatrading as well through her songs are not within my songs hunting range. Hehe..just further your acquaintance about me.

Anyway, i won't tag anyone LOL!!

Second tag : If Wishes Come True....., tagged by Binky, blogging & such

Here are my wishes,
1. I wish i can be more godly (inspired by Jean) in order to lead my kids to be more godly to our Lord.
2. I wish both hubby and i can be more humbler to serve our Load. I know we have been forgetting him for some time.
3. I wish God can bless my hubby's career, our financial and our parents. Hope all of them can live to their ripe old age with good health.
4. I wish God bless my Jo and my baby indeed. Let my kids free from sickness and those unforeseen happens.
5. I wish our family love will be passing down from one generation to another.
6. I wish we can settle our house loan within the next five year. Then we can go back to M'sia.
7. I wish i can go back to work after my baby is popped out. Hopefully my programming skill isn't rusty when i out.
8. I wish all my wishes come true....

Again, i won't tag anyone!
Homework done...

25 weeks updates

Currently i'm 25 weeks pregnant, but look like more than 30 weeks..sigh!

I have forgotten the exact weight of my first checkup (25 Nov 06), but roughly either 61kg or 62kg. Before i have baby, my weight around 58kg or 59kg with 172cm height.

My weights during each checkup:

Second (5 Jan 07) - 63kg

Third (9 Feb 07) - 65.5kg

Fourth (10 March 07) - 67.3kg

Currently measured by own scale - 67.5kg (i think figure must be different if using my gynae's scale)

So, altogether i almost gained 10kg, anyhow i still have another 15 weeks to go.

I have good appetite, i'm craving passionately for chocolate, cola and other spicy foods recently, unfortunately i only able to take 50% full in order to ensure i'm still able to breathe.

Though i'm applying the lotion religiously, i still have stretch marks that feel itchy sometimes. Due to the unpleasant stretch marks look, i'm neither to be a funky mother to show off my bump nor taking photo.

I have cramp every day and night, cramp seems more seriously on right calf.

I can't sleep on my back, more comfortable with right side sleeping, that's why i only have cramping on my right calf.

I have terrible backache, it happens basically on my left side. I feel like it has a "patch" sticking there..just don't know how to describe the pain.

Pimples no longer confined on forehead, as pimples already extended to nose. Somemore i have freckles on my cheeks.

No constipation at all. Thanks to Elken's spirulina.

Feel nausea occasionally, but without throwing.

Dreaming uninterruptedly everynight make me tired most of the time.

Pills taking: Pramilet's multivits, Bio-Enhanced's calcium, Neurogain and spirulina.

BTW, i think it's a right time to stop taking beef as i heard beef is really not good for baby's skin. Other than beef, i love prawn and crab too...I feel so guilty now....help!!

New look

Finally i managed to revamp my blog but it's still under construction..
Changing the template means have to change the old photo's alignments too..
Hopefully can be settled everything asap because i want to print every single post out to form a diary book..
It takes time..

First demoted to second..

I know the real world! How to stop yourself for not demoting your wife position from first to second after seeing your cute son's cheeky smile.

I quickly run to the door when i heard the door opening sound, i don't want my hubby accidentally wake Jo up, but this happened..

I opened the door with my smiling face and i saw him hold back his smile after seeing me behind the door.What a disliked and disappointed look i saw...

I asked him, "why you hold back your smile?"

"I thought is Jo.."

"Can't you simply smile on me?"

"Can, but i just thought is Jo as i want to play with him..."

Being a narrow-minded lady, i feel like my position has been demoting, anyway, luckily his love is devoted to his son and not other ladies. If not, sure i will KILL him. I am not joking!

Am I weird or just a nut case?

Tagged by Angeleyes on the "5 weird things" (emm..unique topic).
1. I like to buy branded lingerie, but the weird part is i like to keep them in my wardrobe without wearing them. I only wear them when other new sets are bought. So, my wardrobe always has some new lingeries especially those sexy sexy one..

2. I always easy to stress myself up, let say tomorrow morning i have to go to wet market, then sure tonight i will wake up few times to think about what should i buy or what time should i go out though everytime i go out in same time and even buy the same things.

3. I like to wash car, yeah, extremely love it. I have the high gratification after seeing my car is being washed. I will stare at my car for few minutes, and have the self-praising. I still washed my car when i was pregnant with Jo, until my neighbour's maid said "Alamak, moi, kamu masih cuci car ar? itu baby mahu keluar sudah lo..."

4. Other than washing car, i like to wash toilet too, but of course, just my own house toilet la..

5. I am a sort of double minded lady, when i tell you i want "a" but most probably my heart is thinking i want "b". Sort of variable person.

So..am i weird? Hehe..
Not going to tag other people since i know most of the mummies already done this tag.

Birthday Celebration in Disneyland

This is a backdated post.

Joshua was celebrating his 3rd birthday in Disneyland, HK on the 15 March 07. Don't feel weird if you don't see his papa around in the photos, yeah, the celebration was without his papa as papa having important meeting on that day. I bought Jo down to HK with my mother, sister and aunty, they're all first-time-Disney-goers except Jo and me. I have to pay HKD210 for Jo as that day was Jo's 3rd birthday, if i go before 15 March, Jo is entitled to have FREE entrance as Disneyland only charged for kids above age 3. I was initially thought that Jo might not enjoy those games or rides like the first time he went last year, but i absolutely underestimated his innate child's spirit as this time it's really worthwhile to pay the money. He had played everything, yes, EVERYTHING, he was full of energies to visit every ride without failed. Fortunately my younger sister was able to bring him for riding as most of the games are not allowed for pregnant woman, somemore due to my big tummy and wobble walked.

Hubby called few times as he wanted to make sure Jo is really happy to have his birthday celebration without papa, and he kept reminding me don't forget to buy him a cake, even a slice would do and reminding me don't forget to buy him present on behalf of papa. At last, i bought him a set of Power Ranger's watch set from "Lui Yan Kai, Mongkok" (女人街），he loves it so much as he always says he is a "Abare Red" (Abare Ranger in Japan Version) and he wearing the watch from day to night without taking it off. Apart from the watch set, i did give him a Play-Doh that can decorate the clown. I bought this long long time ago when i was back to Sabah, and only managed to give him on his birthday.

That's a wonderful birthday celebration and Jo only fell to bed after 12am, it's already the next day...he only had 1 hour nap during the bus and MRT rides to Disneyland, he was too excited and totally forgotten about his tiredness. That's why i said it's worth to pay the money.

The fourth scan

I had my 4th scan on 10 March 07, 3 days before i was heading back to China. Baby's face outline is definitely alike Jo, he was playing kungfu kick while the doctor doing the scan. He seems to be more active than Jo especially at night time. I am getting difficult to breathe though i am just 24 weeks and i can't sleep on my back as i would like lack of oxygen and going to be suffocated soon. Other than breathing problem, i can't eat much too, even few pieces of biscuits i also feel my stomach is cramming there. Tummy is getting bloated too, some said my tummy is quite big that is not equivalent to my months, but doctor said my baby size is definitely in his actual month size. So no worries at all.

I will be going back to Sabah again, i think should be in early May though my EDD on July. I have already got used of the life in Sabah that full of noises and i found that Jo has massive improvement in his speech after staying in Sabah for more than 2 and half months. The school life in Sabah actually is much more better than here, at least Jo can speak simple English and even Hakka now. He is hardly to learn new things if staying in China since we're always staying at home, i can't bring him out as i easily to get tired, i need extra hour to rest after a simple walk back from wet market and it's really exhausted.

Just keep my finger crossed to countdown the date coming....

Happy 3rd Birthday

My little Joshua, time passes so fast, as today you are celebrating your 3rd Birthday! Wish you have a wonderful birthday though your lovely papa not by your side, but to be sure, Papa's loves and blesses are filled with you even he is not able to celebrate and stay with you. Hey, my little boy, Happy 3rd Birthday to you and may God bless you forever.

Picture is the key of sharing..

I received this cake from BIL's girlfriend, yeah, a big surprise from hubby. I didn't love the taste but Jo loves it so much until he finished 3 slices and totally forgotten about his lunch and dinner. I received the Estee Lauder's perfume from hubby on 16 February during his return from China. This year i have double happiness from him. Hope he can keep this on... :)

My FIL had a joyous afternoon to swim with his grandchildren on the second day of CNY. At first, Jo refused to dip himself inside the pool but finally hubby put him inside the pool successfully.



















I managed to take Jo's funniest look while we had our lunch at Hilltop. He told us the Lemon- Teh-O is very "spicy". But i think should be very "sourly".



















I had my 3D baby scan on 26 Feb. That's a wonderful scan i have ever seen though it charged me RM200 per scan. The baby's face seems very clearly to me, i found that he looks like Jo, yeah, another little naughty boy that Jo can play or even fight with. You know, i just can't wait myself to hold him real now..i love you my little boy!

About the baby

I had my third checkup on 9 February, doctor confirmed the baby 100% is a BOY! We have shortlisted the baby name to Elijah, at first hubby wanted to name the baby as Joseph but finally we gave up as one of our churchmate also choosing Joseph as his son name.

I started to feel his movement when i was just about 12 weeks pregnant and now he is getting very active especially at night. I have to increase my trips to loo too due to his actively stretching. Just imagine i have to visit the toilet bowl 3 times within 10 minutes, but just few droplets down!

I saw him pulling his leg during my last checkup, just very sudden i found myself can't wait to see him real in face to face. I was so delighted when seeing him squirming here and there through the scan. He is definitely more active than Jo as i never seen Jo had this kind of movements throughout my pregnancy. Or perhaps my previous doctor not scanning my tummy as detail as this doctor?

Baby development is good, but mother's health is waiting to be improved as i suffered the brown color discharge started on last Wednesday (7 Feb). Other than discharge, i couldn't stand long and even walk as i felt like something is very "heavy" there. Anyway, i feel ok now as i try to rest more and decrease my heavy walking. That's why i didn't go to internet cafe for the pass few days and didn't able to do my blogs hopping. So sorry if i can't leave any comment on your blog, i will try to catch up everything once i go back to China..

Last, wish you all Happy Valentine's Day!!

Tongue-tie

Jo is almost 3 years old but his speech development still slightly lagging behind. He can speak but he has problems with some of the words pronunciation especially "s" and "f" sounds. I had been thinking he might outgrow the problems as he grows, but he still having the problems though the couple of months had past. I tried hard to rectify his pronunciation and till sometimes he really made my blood boiled. Though i know that's no point to raise my voice to him, i understand he been trying hard but still can't get the exact pronunciation.

Kids take time to learn something new and even it takes time to help a weak kid into a right pace. I know the rule but just can't control myself to scold him. I guess my unconsciously reacted might pressure him and have been making him so reluctant to improve his speech development.

I told his paed about his situation on last Monday (29 Jan 07) when Jo was having his JE last jab. Doctor checking his tongue and confirmed me that he has a minor tongue-tie problem. Doctor assured me that 80% of kids with tongue-tie problem will outgrow their speech problems when their grow up. Tongue-tie problem will even get distinctly when the kid reaches to 7 or 8 years old, then only a minor surgery is required for the tongue. So i really hope my Jo will be one of them out of this 80%.

I found another problem after the speech episode. I am suspecting Jo has color-blindness problem after been playing few times of color matching with him. He can't differentiate the blue and green colors when i asking him to find their pairs. He would match blue with green but others are fine in matching.

I told my hubby about this color-blindness problem over the phone, he sounded angrily and complaining me always over acting a little issue. But as a mother, what should i do when i found something abnormal, can't tell and discuss with hubby then who should i head to?

Do you believe that when you saying something about other kids then your kid might get the same problem? I really hope some people can stop criticizing others...

What happened?

What happened to blogspot again? Why i can't access my comment and even can't leave comment for some blogger's page? Any idea to solve this problem?

I don't hope to migrate to wordpress as accessing wordpress in China is a big suck for me..