Lately, Jo seems like a bit out of control especially his temper. He would give us a big fuss despite we're at home or outside. In fact, his fuss is due to his over demanding, he wants to get successfully on whatever he requested else just crying or mumbling there. In this kind of situation, hubby always plays a role of becoming his savior, he would give in whatever Jo's requested. I have been telling my hubby about his spoiling issue, but he never taken it as a consideration. It seems so difficult to teach him now, i just can't imagine how is he going to be when he is 10 or more older. I believe family education is important, but i definitely don't like there is a hero to save him whenever i'm teaching him.
Like yesterday, Jo insisted he wanted to eat McDonald the moment we passing by the McDonald, i told him nicely we're not going to take heaty food as the weather is hot, he started to give us his fake crying just after i finished my sentence. Somemore, he was very long-winded, could cry all the way long until the rice was served in another restaurant. In the restaurant, he throwing me another fuss as he insisted he wanted to have cola prior the meal served, i said firmly to him "NO, can't take cola everytime when we're out". And, i gave him a spank on his buttock. His loud crying became soft after eating my spank, but his mouth still saying something (which i couldn't hear cleary) non-stop like retorting me and even snuzzling his nose to the chair, i really couldn't stand him anymore and wanted to drag him out for another spank. But, hubby gave me a big interruption and said "nevermind la..don't let him cry", OMG...he did it again when i trying to teach his son. This is not giving him the best but definitely is harmful to him, i don't want my son becomes a little rascal and like to retort whenever i am trying to rectify him.
Situation always opposite whenever hubby is away to work, most of the time i can well control Jo maybe he knows he doesn't have someone who can protect him...Sometimes, i just feel like my home education is really failure as my son does look like a little rascal sometimes. :<