Friday, May 11, 2007

Today is the 10th Anniversary


Beware, this is a very long-winded tracing back stories..

11 May 1997 - He gave me a necklace with a cross and asked me to be his girlfriend. That day, we had our first movie "The Fifth Element" in PJ State cinema (it had already dismantled few years ago).

year 1998 - A month before Christmas, we decided to stay under one roof in Section 17, PJ. Before that, i was staying in Sunway as that time i was still studying in Sunway College whereas he was staying in Section 6, PJ State. This year, he bought his first motorbike, TZM. Since then, we always had our long distance trips.

year 1999 - We had our trip with a gang of friends to Melaka by motorbike, that's an unforgettable trip as we slept in bus-stop due to the heavy pouring. That's cold night as having the chilly wind. Fortunately it didn't have thunder and lightings. This year, he upgraded his TZM to ZXR.

year 2000 - July, after 3 years having the rat race in audit firm he finally managed to go in to MNC. This year he upgraded his ZXR to Wira. We had our Christmas in Bangkok, actually was half working and half visiting. On the way back to KL, i suffered the most terrible food poisoning in my life, i threw and diarrhea along the 4 hours flying.

year 2001 - July, he had his business trip to Xiamen (another province in China), and he flew down to Hong Kong and met me up. We spent 5 days in Hong Kong and Shen Zhen before back to KL. November, i decided to leave him after found out some unfaithful betrayals. Ended up, he begged me back.

year 2002 - July, we signed up our first S&P for buying the landed house in Bandar Kinrara 3, Puchong. October, he had his business trip to Korea. I tagged along too. But, i found out another traces of betrayal the day before our boarding. Ended up, i forgave him again.

year 2003 - May 1, we moved in to our Puchong's house. June 28, we registered as a hubby and wife at Lion Club in Section 17, PJ. It ended our 6 years of courtship. On August 30, we had our church blessing ceremony in Basel Church, Menggatal Branch in KK, Sabah. On August too, i resigned my job and back to Sabah for 1 month as hubby was going to stay in India for 1 month.

year 2004 - Jo joined in our family on 15 March. Hubby cried all the way long from Sunway Medical Centre to Puchong after i gave birth to Jo and he told me he couldn't sleep the whole night as he felt so heartbroken seeing in what i had suffered during my delivery. He said he never thought that giving birth is such a painful task in the world. This year, we had lotsa arguments due to the relationship problem between my MIL and me. And, i had mild postnatal blue after my confinement. I went back to my ex-company on July 19 and joined another new company on September 1. My situation was getting better after i started my work. November, we bought Avanza.

year 2005 - On September 24, hubby relocated in Zhong Shan, China and we only joined him on November 5. We had lotsa arguments again during our stayed in Zhong Shan. I just dislikes him to come back in the wee hours of the night. He sold off his Wira after decided to take the offer to base in China.

year 2006 - On June 26, he relocated in another province, Shen Zhen, China. October, i conceived again. This relocation was good, as he rarely go out at night after separated with those bad piggy colleagues in Zhong Shan. And, our financial is getting stable.

year 2007 - Today, we're celebrating our 10th Anniversary of being together. I lost count how many times he gave me those sour feelings and i lost count how many times i had the suspicious towards him due to his heavy outstation days, you can imagine, 365 days a year i only managed to see him a half, and another half he just needed to fly here and there. Anyway, we're still hanging together even though some unhappiness incidents happened before. Maybe, i need to learn to let go, and remind myself marriage doesn't has win or lose, the most important is our hearts are still united together.

So, dear, just wanna to say "Happy Anniversary" to you...

Yesterday i gave him a hint and asked him at least buy me a bouquet of flowers, you know how he answered me? "How about i buy you some potted plants so that we can decorate our balcony"...Gosh, first time i heard husband buy potted plant for wife as anniversary's present.

29 comments:

Min said...

wow! firstly, CONGRATS!! :) reading down the track, you guys have been through lotsa ups and downs, yet u guys can make it till today!i really respect u guys!
Over the years, my dad had NEVER bought anything for my mum after marriage,can u believe it?? since your hubby is offering u pot of flower, it is better than nothing! u should be happy!! heheh

Egghead said...

so ngam hor?
happy anniversary to you!!

Misha's Mum said...

congratulations :)

yeah .. what Min said .. something is better than nothing hehehe :)

anyway .. with or without present .. will an anniversary lar ok?

once again .. congratulations and may you guys have many many more 10th anniversaries in future :)

Grace said...

哈哈哈,我们的老公真的同一种类耶,“现实的男人”。HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!

KK & WS said...

Happy Aniversary.

I told my hubby no need to buy flower but just go for a good japanese buffet!!! We are food lover!!!

Misha's Mum said...

eating out is food .. flowers will "die" but food can be full full hehehe :)

Annie Q said...

Hui Sia, Happy 10th anniversary to u & ur hubby!And many many more years to celebrate.
U're so "great" even though he betrayal u two times u still forgive him, i think if i will u, i won't.But at least ur hub offer u potted plant, me NOTHING!

michelle said...

Happy Anniversary!!! Congratulation on your 10th year.

Anggie's journel said...

Happy 10th anniversary to u huisia. May GOD bless both of u always...

chooi peng said...

Happy Anniversary!!
u just remember me that hubby n i also 10 years liao..

CutiePrincessMummy said...

Happy 10th Anniversary! and have many many more 10 yrs....

Wish your relationship grow stronger & stronger....and no more argument then! hehehe!

Giddy Tiger said...

Happy Anniversary! Wishing you many happy years ahead!

IMMomsDaughter said...

Happy 10th Anniversary. You have such a big heart Hui Sia, hope you may have many more wonderful years of anniversaries ahead. It's not the pressies that counts but your happiness :)

LZmommy said...

Happy Anniversary! Such a long time you have been together :)

Your hubby very cute leh, buy potted plant. Potted plant is better than not having any flowers right?

karenyiau said...

Happy anniversary huisia, I just had mine 3 days ago, have been with him for 8 years but I can't recall much details of how we went through these 8 years....

Just gotta know about mom2ashley's newborn, I bet that you & I also can't wait to see our babies ya? So excited leh.... :)

Sasha said...

Happy Anniversary!

eh okay ma. If i tell mine, he will say "HUH?"

Hijackqueen said...

Happi Anniversary! And the next time when you fight, you have to think of your two kids. You are one tough woman there. Really tabik you.

mommy of 2 angels said...

wah really go thru thick and thin...happy 10 anniversary!! wow no 10 one...make it special loh!!

Mama Sarah said...

happy anniversary!
hihi you n hubby very cute together!

babykhong said...

Happy Anniversary!!!

Maybe he thought potted plants more practical?? :-)

Jesslyn said...

Wow 10 years! More to come ya!

Happy Anniversary!

kelly said...

Happy anniversary! May your love for each other grow stronger and stronger each passing moment...:p

Baby Darren said...

wow..a very good way of detailing down the important events for the past 10 years.

The ups and downs will make ur relationship stronger by each day and i'm glad that life now seems better nowadays compared to last time.

Whether u'll have a potted plant or a bouquet of flower, just wish u'll have a wonderful anniversary..

chinnee said...

Happy anniversary, Hui Sia :)

laundryamah said...

wow congrats! it's amazing how you can remember all the details...u r really truly a gem and i hope ur hubby truly appreciates u! hmm i oso agree to get a potted plant wor cos the flowers will last longer!! LOL!

wHOisBaBy said...

happy 10th year of being together. husband and wife very difficult not argue one. chong tau ngai kau chong mei worh. as long as you both still care and love each other which is more important.

Debbie Y said...

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY 2U!! It's not easy to keep a 10 years relationship. As what you said, a marriage does not have win or lose.

Malaika's mummy said...

A bit late to wish u happy anniversary.

I also just had my 10 years anniversary with my hubs. So ngam huh?

Angeleyes said...

Hey... a potted plant is good for a beginning mah... at least you get something wor! And potted plant can survive longer than the flowers!