Friday, May 25, 2007

He said he feels lonely

The other day back, hubby told me that he feels like doesn't want us to go back to Sabah..

He has checked out the fees of giving birth in HK, i was dumb when i heard the astronomical figure HKD40000++ with natural birth and one night staying in hospital. You can convert back this figure into Ringgit, and you can think how many kids you are able to have if in Malaysia. So bad, my hubby's company doesn't provide maternity benefit as his company not a MNC, if not maybe i will consider to give birth in HK. :)

I don't know he just said only or really feels lonely after we are back to Sabah, actually i think he must be very happy since,
  • he can sleep as earlier as possible
  • he can wake up as late as possible
  • he can "monopoly" the TV as nobody will say wanted to watch CARTOON
  • he can play game without any disturbance
  • he can watch TV till very late
  • he can drink till get drunk
  • he can substitute his water to beer every night
  • he can save more money
  • he can play sport every night
  • no more blockage (JO) when he is watching HEROES
  • no lights must be turned off before the witching hour
  • no more nagging from his wife
  • no more disturbing from his son
  • no more messy living room
So, do you think the Pros obviously more than Cons? Anyhow, i understand how he feels as suddenly a noisy house turns into a silent house, of course lonely la..but sooner or later he will get used of the environment and start enjoying to be the only one at home.

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25 comments:

Muminmiri said...

I am sure he will feel lonely being by himself. Despite all the things he can "enjoy" it won't be so enjoyable by himself at home. Well, you can tell him to enjoy it while he can coz when you return with an infant, the house will be even noiser than before!!

min said...

how long will he be alone? he will be going back to Sabah to visit u and baby right? well, just spend quality time with him now, sometimes, a lil' separation can make the love grow fonder!i know how it feels !!:(

sue said...

Surely he'll feel lonely, specially when all the noise gone suddenly. How long does he need to be there somemore? If he's gonna be transferred back soon anyway, mai tahan for a while lor...

Mama Sarah said...

how sweet of your hubby to say he will be lonely. and it is generous of him to offer for you to give birth in HK. He must have made your heart melt eh!

Fannie said...

So ex to give birth in HK?!

I believe he will be lonely, Huisia...They'll miss the nagging once you are not around or stop nagging. ;)

Jan said...

no lar, am sure he seriously misses you and Jo lar.....

Give birth in HK so X ah! faintz

chinnee said...

am sure a house without the noise of a kid will be extremely quiet and bored. haha...let him miss u, then he'll realize that u are very important :)

LZmommy said...

Though pros are more thsan cons,I'm sure he will miss you all alot when you are bk home. It is so nice of your hubby to express himself :)

Leng said...

wah...so expensive to give birth in HK...

i'm sure your hubby will miss you and Jo lots...after that, sure he'll appreciate you guys more...as they said...absence makes the heart grow fonder.. :)

laundryamah said...

warao no wonder my friend doesn't want to give birth la..so expensive one ah???

L B said...

From a guy's point of view, I think he will definitely miss you, the cuddling, the together moments, the family.. Maybe the first few days, it will be so strange that he cannot bear it & will follow you home too! LOL.. Maybe only. On the other hand, it could be FREEDOM!!!!! MERDEKA!!? *naughty grin*

wHOisBaBy said...

very expensive ... because company dosent cover. here also very exp if no insurance coverage. but if no insurance, then can discuss with the doctor if they can allow a discount on their fee.

so how long will you be back in sabah? 1 month? 2 months?

blurblur said...

It sure is expensive to give birth in HK...

I'm sure your hubby will miss you and Jo when you're not around. And he has actually tell you about this, that's sweet of him.

Annie Q said...

so when u will be back to Sabah? And u will do confinement in sabah too? Will ur hub will fly back to sabah to see u & ur new born baby?
Ya,he definetly will miss u & Jo & the new baby..

Baby Darren said...

I'm sure he mean it..somehow nothing can replace the existance of his beloved wife and son. But tell him sooner or later he'll have no time to even think of being lonely when u are back with the 2nd baby.

When do u plan to go back to china after delivery? We are all gonna miss you as we understand u won't be able to log on so often in Sabah...:(

zara's mama said...

eh.. why you post that pix of Jo.. later he'll feel very malu. :P

Your hubby will be with you after your confinement or only just until you deliver?

papajoneh said...

Hi there? Never knew you a Sabahan? Really? Or I misread it...
wow.. thats cool.
he'll be lonely o'rite. Im sure if i were him, i will.

chooi peng said...

Maybe lonely at the first few days then turn to HAPPY after that... LOL

Btw, HKD 40000 is very very pricey!!!

Health Freak Mommy said...

The cost of delivery in HK sure is exorbitant but the care & service are superbly 6 stars. My sil who gave birth to her son in HK also spent around HK$40-50k at a private hospital at The Peak. This fee includes all the immunizations for the bb.
Let ur hubby miss u & ur babies lar. When u return to HK, he will appreciate u all more, ha ha.

jazzmint said...

haha the list vy long LOL...

and the cost for delivery so exp!!!

Giddy Tiger said...

Wow...are they trying to discourage birth in HK? Anyway, my opinion is that your hubby will probably enjoy a few days (okay, maybe just one day) if you are not there. After that he will miss you guys like crazy! Trust me...

1+2mom said...

He will miss you all the best when you and Jo not with him.
Wah!!Deliver at HK very exp.ler,we thought malaysia already quite exp, dunno other contry more than that.

may said...

it'll definitely be lonely to not have company around. maybe some moments of enjoyment when there's total freedom for him, eh? monopolise the TV all he wants! LOL!

btw, thanks for dropping by my blog some time ago. repaying that visit now... :)

Debbie Y said...

Wow...HK$40000 just for a delivery?? Don't worry, i believe he will definitely miss you and JO. It's a good chance to make him understand that you are so important in the family. Hahaha....

Mrs. Wallace said...

I think he want to participate in the labour room when he suggesting you to give birth in HK. He wants to see his new son being born but just to man to mention it.He..he...