Friday, August 10, 2007

Jo made me angry again


10 minutes ago, Jo broke the rice bowl and the glasses shattered around the living hall. During the fell off, the glass even scratched my nephew's foot. The incident turned me to nuts, i definitely would give Jo some beats if i could find the cane nearby. I don't know why he keeps acting mischief recently, and why he always make me yelling at him. Even meal time also not willing to sit properly, i have been warning him for few times but he seems like "right ear in left ear out", perhaps he knows he is no longer be the center of attraction and gets jealous of his brother, i don't know, really don't know how to find more patience to teach this little boy. I am so frustrated, i don't know which one i should give my attention first when both Jo and Elijah crying for me, sometimes i feel like Jo very inconsiderate, though i have told him the little baby needs mommy more, Jo seemed agree by the time i told him but he would repeat the act at next round. Headache...

4 comments:

montessorimum said...

Maybe he's just a little insecure and seeking for attention.

I know it's hard to be patient with no1, when you have no2 to care for, I often loose my cool with JS too, expecting her to be more understanding... but it will take time.

misha's mum said...

:(

like what montessorimum said .. maybe he feels a bit insecure. After a while, he will be ok lar .. :)

me hugs hugs HS

LZmommy said...

This is only the 2nd month, do give Jo more time to adjust to having a didi...

How abt spending some time alone with him while Elijah is sleeping? I know you will be very tired, but you effort will pay off :) Keep telling him you love him and tell him he is special. I did these when Z came along.. Hope this will help you...

Vien said...

Gosh, sorry to hear you have to go through this by yourself. Do you get to set aside an hour or two just for you and Jo (w/o everyone else)?